Investigation report on love bill： 80% of men and women’s patience in pursuing love is less than half a year.
Xinhai, China, May 18 (Reporter Li Jiajia) The "520 Love Bill Survey Report" released by zhenai on the 18 th shows that over 7 adults spend less than 2,000 a month on love; 80% of women want the other half to earn more than twice; The economic pressure of men’s marriage and love in first-tier cities is great; Eighty percent of men and women have less than half a year of patience in pursuing love; Shanghai Shenyang has a high-yield "crazy wife"; Love is easy to meet for 3 years; Wuhan has become the city with the most cross-regional marriage and love.
This report is an online sample survey of zhenai’s 100 million members, with a total of 6,289 valid samples for data analysis.
In the sweet time of love, all expenses are indispensable. According to the survey, 72.64% of single men and women think that it is reasonable to spend 1,000 to 2,000 yuan a month on love, which accounts for a quarter of salary income. As far as consumption is concerned, 32.6% of men think that shopping is the biggest expense in love, and "buy buy shopping" which women love is regarded as the number one enemy of wallets, followed by tourism and entertainment; Women, on the other hand, think that tourism is the biggest expense, followed by shopping and entertainment.
People who have talked about marriage have also passed the age of being full of affection and drinking water, and their economic income has always been concerned. The report shows that half of men think that the ideal economic state is equal to that of men and women, and 36.3% of men think that "men earn twice as much as women"; Only 15.2% of women think that the income of men and women is equal in an ideal economic state. More than 50% of women hope that men’s income is twice that of women, and 30.3% of women hope that men’s income is three times or more than that of women.
It can be seen that the economic pressure of men on the level of marriage and love is increasing day by day. From the data point of view, men in first-tier central cities are still "far ahead" in the face of economic pressure from marriage and love. Among the cities with high demands from women, Beijing ranks first, followed by Shanghai, Guangzhou, Shenzhen, Chengdu, Wuhan and Xi’ an.
In this regard, Zhang Shasha, an emotional expert in zhenai, believes that from the traditional culture of China, men are endowed with the important task of supporting their families. However, in contemporary society, the situation has changed a lot, and women’s ability and value have been greatly improved, even surpassing men in many aspects, so it is unnecessary to rely too much on men economically. At the same time, it is pointed out that it is not worth the loss if you miss the object of good character and sincere treatment with harsh economic requirements.
The fast pace of modern society makes all kinds of fast food cultures and quick concepts popular, which also changes people’s emotional concepts and emotional patience, and makes single men and women in reality seize the day emotionally. According to the report, 79% of men and women said that they are willing to spend no more than six months in pursuing their feelings, and 35% of men and 44.4% of women spend less than one month. Only 21% people are willing to spend more than half a year to pursue their favorite object. Interestingly, the post-90s generation accounts for the most of this group, which shows that the post-90s generation is more persistent in the process of pursuing love.
80% of men and women’s patience in pursuing love is less than half a year.
Once the confession is rejected, 51.09% of men and women will choose to give up directly, 31.86% are still willing to spend a month fighting for opportunities, and only 17.05% will choose to impress each other with persistence for more than half a year.
Love is a process of mutual attraction. Zhang Shasha, an emotional expert in zhenai, said that in pursuit, the time is too short, and the other party may not know you well enough. Therefore, if the frequency of contact between the two parties is high (including telephone or network contact), it can be judged whether they can attract each other in more than three months. If the frequency is low, the pursuit period can be extended to six months.
Couples are small enemies, and quarrels and bumps are inevitable. The survey found that 54.6% of men said they would compromise immediately when they quarreled, and they were full of tolerance, thoughtfulness and warmth, and 37% of men would compromise in 1-2 days. In-depth investigation shows that men in Shanghai, Shenyang and Beijing admit their mistakes the fastest. For men in these cities, they are likely to become "crazy wives" in the future, and they know how to tolerate and understand best in love. Relatively speaking, men in Chongqing, Suzhou and Guangzhou are more "proud", and it takes 1-2 days to compromise for love. However, it takes more than half of women an average of 1-2 days (50.2%) to compromise.
"If you quarrel with your girlfriend, you will win, and you will be single in the end," said Mr. Chen, 27, from Haidian District, Beijing. "Although this is an online joke, I agree that love is not a place to make sense. Boys should have let girls talk slowly and never be angry. It is also good for yourself to admit your mistake in time and marry your girlfriend. "
"Giving" is a word that appears frequently in love. The report shows that such behaviors as "spending time with each other", "following each other’s city life", "filial piety to each other’s parents", "giving all the money to each other for safekeeping" and "working hard for each other’s dreams" are all on the list, which are the main giving behaviors of people in love.
As for the in-depth study of "following the other city life", it will be found that the more floating people in first-tier cities, the more marriage and love in different places they face. Whether to choose the other city life for love is also a problem that young people have to face. The survey found that 50% of post-80s people are willing to follow each other’s city life for love, which accounts for the most than other age groups. The data shows that Wuhan, Nanjing, Chengdu, Shenzhen and Hangzhou are cities where couples are more willing to move for each other. It can be seen that these cities have the most foreign daughters-in-law and foreign sons-in-law.