In a small town, there lived a girl named Xiaoyan. She has a pair of bright eyes, and smiles like the sunshine in spring, which makes people intoxicated. However, her fate is doomed to be extraordinary.

Xiaoyan was born in a patriarchal family and was neglected by her parents since she was a child. Her existence seems to be a burden to her family, and her dreams and hopes are ruthlessly deprived. However, she didn’t give up. She tried to change her destiny with her own hands.

Xiaoyan’s first love happened in high school. She fell in love with a boy named Xiaoming in her class. Xiao Ming is sunny and handsome, and he is the master of his class. Xiaoyan watched him silently and gave everything for him. However, when Xiao Ming knew Xiaoyan’s family background, he chose to leave. He is afraid of being dragged down by Xiaoyan’s family. What he wants is a partner who can walk side by side with him, not a poor person who needs his rescue.

Xiaoyan, who is lovelorn, understands a truth in tears: the first commonality of women is tenacity. No matter how much suffering life gives them, they can stick to it and find their own light.

Xiaoyan met a boy named Xiaogang when she was in college. Xiaogang is a warm person. He knows how to care for Xiaoyan and take care of her. They spent many wonderful times together. However, when Xiaoyan took Xiaogang home to meet her parents, she was strongly opposed by her parents. They think Xiao Gang’s family condition is not good enough for their daughter. Xiaoyan was caught in a painful choice: whether to listen to her parents or stick to her love?

At this critical moment, Xiaoyan realized that the second commonality of women is sacrifice. They are willing to give up everything for love, including family, friends and even their own lives.

Xiaoyan finally chose love. She left her hometown with Xiaogang and came to a strange city. They worked hard together and spent many difficult days together. However, fate played tricks on them again. Xiaogang was injured in an accident, resulting in disability. Faced with the burden of life, Xiaoyan did not choose to leave, but chose to tide over the difficulties with Xiaogang. She used her shoulders to support this family and Xiao Gang’s hope.

Accompanied by Xiaoyan, Xiaogang gradually stepped out of the shadows. Together, they opened a small shop and lived a quiet life. At this time, Xiaoyan understood the third commonality of women, that is, guardianship. They are willing to protect their lives for their loved ones, with no regrets.

Time flies, Xiaoyan has changed from an ignorant girl to a strong woman. With her own story, she told the world three commonalities of women: tenacity, sacrifice and guardianship. She also used her own stories to make those who look down on women understand the greatness of women.

In this world, every woman is a treasure, waiting for the discovery of a willing heart. What men need to do is to understand these three commonalities of women, cherish them and love them. Only in this way can the flower of love bloom forever.

1. Women in Song Dynasty will be fined if they don’t marry at fourteen.

During the Song Renzong period, men were married at the age of fifteen and women at the age of thirteen; Ming Taizu stipulates that a man marries at the age of 16 and a woman marries at the age of 14. A woman who does not marry at the legal age will be fined.

For example, when Emperor Xiaohui of the Han Dynasty was filial, anyone who wanted to have a daughter who was over 15 to 30 years old and had not married was fined 600 yuan; In the Tang Dynasty, men over the age of 20 and girls over the age of 15 were also punished.

2. Zhongguancun was originally a eunuch nursing home.

Zhongguancun, a desolate cemetery decades ago, is mostly the tomb of eunuchs.Because eunuchs were called "middle officials" in the Ming and Qing Dynasties, it was called "middle official grave".

Eunuchs built temples and old-age manors here, and because they were called "middle officials" at that time, they called this place "middle official village". After liberation, they chose to build the China Academy of Sciences here. They thought the word "middle official" was not good, so they changed their names to "Zhongguancun".

3. Confucius is the pioneer of Weibo style.

The Analects of Confucius is the earliest collection of Weibo;

1. Each Analects does not exceed 140 words;

2, concise and profound;

3, more fragmented, mostly for Confucius to bask in the mood and exchange philosophy.

4. Strong interaction, and often reply and interact with Zigong, Yan Hui, Zilu, etc.

5. Confucius has more than 3,000 fans, 72 of whom are V tuba.

4. The origin of "jealousy" originated from the Tang Dynasty.

Fang Xuanling was the prime minister for 22 years and was an important founder of Zhenguan rule.In order to show his merits, Emperor Taizong gave two beautiful women. Then this angered the prime minister’s wife and forbade beautiful women to enter the house.

Li Shimin gave her two choices:One is to get back the beauty; The second is to drink the "poisoned wine" given by the royal family.

After the heroic Mrs. Fang drank the "poisoned wine" on the spot, she knew it was a cup of vinegar. Emperor Taizong couldn’t help but take back the beauty, and the word "jealous" spread.

5, Gao Qiu was Su Dongpo extremely.

Gao Qiu used to be Su Dongpo’s mini-story, that is, extremely well-behaved, good at copying.When Su Shi was transferred to Zhongshan House, he gave him to Wang Jinqing of Wang Shen, the captain of Xiaowangdu. Once, Wang Shen wanted to send Duan Wang was a comb knife for trimming sideburns, which was sent by Gao Qiu.

It happened that Duan Wang was playing cuju, and Gao Qiu took the opportunity to show off his skills, so he won the favor of Zhao Ji and stayed with Duan Wang from now on.After Zhao Ji succeeded to Song Huizong, Gao Qiu rose steadily.

6. Yan was not alone.

I always thought that Yan was one person, but it was ten people.Yamaraja in Ten Temples is the floorboard of ten hades who are in charge of hell, which is said by China Buddhism. This statement began in the late Tang Dynasty.

They are:King Guang of Qin, Chu Jiangwang, Emperor Song, King Wu Guan, Yan Luowang, King Bian Cheng, King Tai Shan, King Ping, King Du Shi and King Huan.

These ten kings live on the ten halls of hell respectively, because they are called the ten halls of hell.

7. "Hou" was originally the title of emperor.

When you see the last word, you will always think of the queen, the queen mother and so on.However, in ancient times, the latter word represented men, was the embodiment of power, the symbol of emperors and the title of the son of heaven.

Later, it was the title of emperor before the Zhou Dynasty, when the wife of the son of heaven was a princess, and later it was used as the title of emperor for more than 360 years. It was not until the Zhou Dynasty that the princess was renamed.

After Qin Shihuang unified the six countries, the emperor was called the emperor, and the emperor’s wife was called the queen.

8. In Wei and Jin Dynasties, a man must look like a beautiful woman to be beautiful.

In Wei and Jin Dynasties, a man had to look like a beautiful woman to be praised, and gentle female beauty was the standard of beautiful men.Noble men and women, almost everyone never leaves the mirror. Every day, they wear powder, lipstick and perfume, to the point where they disappear without makeup.

At that time, the famous handsome men were: writers Cao Zhi, Pan An and calligrapher Wang Xizhi …

9. Although the Ming emperor was dissolute, he had no wimps.

Although some emperors of the Ming Dynasty were dissolute and heartless, none of them were wimps!The Great Ming Dynasty lasted for 276 years, and never paid compensation, ceded land or paid tribute. The emperor guarded the country and the king died.

Emperor Chongzhen was martyred, but orthodox prisoners never begged for mercy. Longwu was killed in the battlefield, and Shaowu was captured and committed suicide by hunger strike.At the end of the Ming Dynasty, the soldiers were still divided into two ways to deal with the Manchu and the King, and they did not give up the desire of "the whole Liao can be restored" from beginning to end.

10. It was stipulated in the Song Dynasty that officials were not allowed to enter the wine shop, regardless of public or private funds, they were impeached.

According to Ouyang Xiu’s "Returning to the Field", Lu Su’s simple public service is a virtue, and the public service is easy to take and drink in a wine shop. Zhenzong asked, "Why did you enter the wine shop privately?" Gong said:"I am poor and have no utensils, and I have everything in the wine shop. I have come from afar with my relatives in the village, so I drink with them. However, the minister is easy to serve, and the city people have no knowledge of the minister. "

Zhenzong said, "Your majesty is a courtier, and I’m afraid he will be played by the censor."

11, the origin of the yellow flower girl

In ancient times, unmarried women liked to use yellow color to draw various patterns on their foreheads or faces when dressing up. It can also be cut into various patterns with yellow paper and pasted.

And "yellow flower" refers to chrysanthemum. Because chrysanthemum can resist cold in Ao Shuang, it is often used as a metaphor for people having moral integrity.

Therefore, adding the word "yellow flower" in front of the prostitute means that the woman is not married yet, but can remain chaste.

12. The origin of "Erguotou"

In the middle of Qing Dynasty, in order to improve the quality of shochu, Jingshi shochu Workshop needed to treat the distilled liquor, the "liquor head" cooled by cold water in the tin pot for the first time and the "liquor tail" cooled by cold water in the tin pot for the third time.

Because the first pot and the third pot are cooled by substances, only the wine that flows out after being cooled by the cold water changed into the tin pot for the second time is picked, so it is called "Erguotou".

13. Housing security system in Song Dynasty: the monthly rent of low-rent housing in Kaifeng is 106 yuan.

Building shop service, later renamed as "shop house service", is responsible for the management and maintenance of state-owned real estate, and to the public for rent. Look a little familiar! Equivalent to the current low-rent housing.At that time, there were 1192 public houses in Kaifeng, the capital, with a monthly rent of 170 yuan (RMB 106.25).

Can ordinary people afford to rent the land of capital city at the foot of the son of heaven?This is a housing security system, which is completely affordable.

14. Four nicknames of ancient China: Shenzhou, Kyushu, Huaxia and Zhongyuan.

1. China, the ancient sage took China’s China, which was called "the land of China".

2. Huaxia, originally referred to the Central Plains, later included the whole territory.

3. Kyushu, the ancient China, was divided into: Ji, Yan, Qing, Xu, Yang, Jing, Liang, Yong and Yu.

4. The Central Plains, the birthplace of Chinese civilization, was regarded as the center of the world by the Chinese nation in ancient times.

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Go to exercise, life lies in exercise, life does not stop, exercise does not stop

I have a friend who complained constantly about work problems some time ago, and the whole person smelled of depression.

I can see him again recently, only to find that his mental state has changed greatly, and his eyes are no longer cloudy and depressed.

I teased him about what good things happened to him recently, and he was stupefied and said nothing happened.

"Then how do you feel that the whole person has taken on a new look recently? You didn’t return it last week …"

"It’s really nothing, just last weekend, I thought it was not the way to worry about work all day, so I followed my cousin, a sportsman, to run and play ball. After running for a few days in a row, I felt much better and wanted to open my work."

Leonardo da Vinci said that sports are the source of all life.

When I really understood this sentence, it was the day when I was so busy that I insisted on going to the gym for an hour.

It is always said that when going to work every day, where there is still time and energy to exercise, I will lie on the sofa when I get home, so tired that I don’t want to move.

But the reason why a person really has no energy is precisely the lack of exercise.

The busier you are, the more tired you feel, the more you need to exercise, run, dance and hit a ball heartily, and the whole person’s sense of fatigue will be swept away.

Even if you go back to the office to face the work, the depressed mood will be relieved a lot.

Exercise is the best medicine to cure everything.

Hippocrates said: the best doctors of mankind are air, sunshine and exercise.

Indeed, we can often see those elderly people who are in high spirits. Every morning at the first light, we can see them dancing Tai Chi, skipping rope and kicking shuttlecock, or jogging and climbing mountains. They are in high spirits, far more energetic than some young people who are listless and yawn repeatedly.

And every night, the square dance begins with the rhythmic movement.

Many elderly people say that they didn’t like square dancing at first, and they felt noisy, but after they really tried, they found that getting their bodies moving would make them feel much more comfortable, and those minor illnesses such as colds and coughs also left them.

Socrates once said that the health of the body is destroyed by immobility and maintained for a long time by exercise.

Exercise can strengthen people’s physique and forge your figure. The more people who exercise regularly, the healthier their bodies and the younger their faces.

For example, Zhang Junning, a runner, insists on morning running and other exercises every day. Although she is 37 years old, her face and figure are still as pretty as a girl, which are the best gifts that sports bring her.

For another example, Eddie Peng Yuyan, a master of self-discipline, used to be a frail little fat man with asthma. After years of self-exercise, he finally grew into a handsome, muscular, powerful and healthy male god.

Regarding sports, he once said: "Sports don’t make me excellent, but give me more opportunities.

Although exercising for half an hour or an hour every day will not bring any change at the moment, over time, you will find that you have a strong heart and people will become happier. "

The more people who have exercise habits, the more they will find that the pride that arises after exercise can remove all the depression, and it can purify the inner garbage mood.

An exercise, like a detoxification and redemption, eliminates physical and emotional toxins and redeems the gradually exhausted soul and spirit.

Perhaps many people know that exercise is very important, it can secrete a kind of "happiness element", so that the body, spirit and psychology can be full of vitality quietly.

But everyone knows the truth, but they just can’t do it.

But in fact, it’s really simple to start exercising. You just need to set a goal: to exercise, even for 5 minutes or 10 minutes, is closer to your desired state than sitting or lying down.

Go to exercise, life lies in exercise, life does not stop, exercise does not stop

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1. "Against the Water"

At the end of the Northern Song Dynasty, a tragic night fall story unfolded in Sanqingshan area. This beautiful place is the headquarters of Zimen, located in the rich Jiangnan East Road. The founder of Zimen is the great Wei Qingqing. It deeply involves many elements such as river’s lake grievances, court disputes, gang vendettas, emotional entanglements, and various market situations, and vividly depicts a picture of life in the Northern Song Dynasty.

Now the quality of most games is almost the same, and the games recommended by many platforms are very similar. Although they are some mainstream games, they ignore the feelings and real needs of some players, and how to operate them is the key. Some game manufacturers will cooperate with major domestic platforms, such as the old driver base, dazzle-raccoon-tour-drama-official-net-. Give a start of 5000 and a real charge of more than 648 per day. This may be the ultimate experience that players want to have. However, the daily quota is limited, and those who are often short of games can use the case number-one-wipe-red-dust-come and try their luck.

2. "Egg Party"

In the game, players can become cute eggs and challenge various fantasy levels with friends; At the same time, you can also pick up various props in the scene to hinder the actions of other eggs. The game provides all kinds of interesting props, such as bombs, freezing, electric shocks and even farting. In addition, the game also provides an egg workshop, which allows players to use their imagination and create more interesting levels and props.

3. "Fantasy Westward Journey"

This game is a role-playing game. In the game, players can control different characters to fight and go through one level after another. There are many unknown levels in the game waiting for players to unlock. These levels are very exciting, and players can experience many simple and interesting ways to play.

4. The Master of Yin and Yang

Is a card game, players need to collect all kinds of monster cards, through training and matching, to create a strong lineup to meet various challenges. Each monster has unique skills and attributes, and players need to make reasonable choices according to the actual situation. In addition, "Master of Yin and Yang" is also a card-collecting game. Players need to gradually cultivate their own small gods and improve their level and combat effectiveness. In the game, players need to use strategies to choose the right cards and gods in order to win in the battle.

5. The Fifth Personality

Players will play detective Orpheus. After receiving a mysterious entrustment letter, they will step into the notorious manor and uncover the truth of a missing case. In the process of searching for evidence, Orpheus, played by the player, will use deductive method to deeply analyze the case. In the case review session, players can choose to play the role of supervisor or survivor and launch a fierce confrontation. However, with the deepening of the investigation, when the truth gradually surfaced, it revealed more and more incredible facts.

6. "Ghost Story"

It is a real-time role-playing game developed by Netease Thunder Fire Studio. This game was officially opened for public beta on May 19th, 2016. The script of the game is adapted from the story of Nie Xiaoqian in Strange Tales from a Lonely Studio. In the game, in the late Ming dynasty, all beings suffered and the world fell into chaos, which originated from the awakening of Pangu Yuanshen. Only by rediscovering and sealing the Yuan Shen Zhu can we calm this storm.

7. Light Encounter

Light Encounter is a unique social adventure game. The game has unique settings, warm style and pleasant plot. In the game, players can enjoy different scenery and be free to explore and take risks. Although the game has no dialogue, it can be deeply rooted in people’s hearts and arouse the resonance of players. Players can join hands with their friends to complete the cloud adventure and enjoy the free and warm journey in the cloud.

8. Battle for Peace in Beijing

The decisive battle of Ping An Jing is a non-attached competitive MOBA mobile game launched by Netease. This game has unique skill setting and rich tactical play, so that players can experience the lovely and efficient collocation of Yin and Yang and the fun of free collocation. In addition, the game also incorporates the elements of Netease’s exclusive IP "Yin Yang Shi", bringing more freshness and benefits to players. The launch of Ping An Jing, the decisive battle, provided players with a richer and more varied game experience and was warmly welcomed by the majority of players.

9. "A Dream of Rivers and Lakes"

Recommend a Netease game: A Dream of Rivers and Lakes. This beautiful role-playing game adopts the beautiful picture texture of the national style. In the game, you can experience the life of rivers and lakes with pleasure and enmity, and have a drink with heroes from all walks of life. The characters in the game are rich and colorful, with both the demeanor of a late-life hero and the heroic attitude of a young knight. If you love the beautiful painting style and martial arts theme of mobile games, then "A Dream of Rivers and Lakes" will definitely bring you a unique game experience.

10. Forgotten Sichuan Scenery Record

Netease games strongly recommend "Forgotten Sichuan Scenery", which is a mobile game with unique national charm and leads people to explore the heyday of historical celebrities. In the game, excellent games continue to be exported, and they have achieved great success in overseas markets recently. Role-playing is unique, the characters are lifelike, and the costumes are meticulous. The plot is rich and full, which makes people indulge in forgetting Sichuan and appreciate the elegance of historical celebrities and the stories behind them.